Episode 13

Letting Go of What You Carry

Sometimes the weight we feel isn’t from what’s happening right now—it’s from everything we’ve been holding onto.

In this episode of Put It in a Bubble, we explore what it means to let go of what you carry—the expectations, pressure, past experiences, and thoughts that quietly build over time.

Holding onto everything can feel normal, but over time it becomes heavy. The truth is, just because you’ve been carrying something for a long time doesn’t mean you’re meant to carry it forever.

This episode gently walks you through recognizing what you’re holding, understanding why it’s hard to release, and learning how to let go without pressure or guilt.

Because letting go isn’t about forgetting—it’s about creating space for something lighter.

In This Episode We Talk About

• The hidden weight of expectations, pressure, and past experiences

• Why holding everything in becomes exhausting over time

• The belief that we have to handle everything alone

• What letting go really means (and what it doesn’t mean)

• How releasing emotional weight creates space for growth

• Why letting go is a practice—not a one-time decision

What You Might Be Carrying

• Pressure to be or do more

• Expectations about how life “should” look

• Past situations that still feel unresolved

• Negative thoughts or beliefs that aren’t even yours

Awareness is the first step to release.

Gentle Ways to Begin Letting Go

• Pause and notice what feels heavy

• Ask yourself: “Do I need to carry this today?”

• Share what you’re feeling instead of holding it in

• Allow yourself to release things little by little

Letting go doesn’t have to be dramatic—it can be quiet and intentional.

Reflection Questions

• What am I carrying right now that feels heavy?

• Is this something I need to keep holding onto?

• What would it feel like to release even part of it?

• Where can I allow support instead of doing everything alone?

Final Thought

You don’t have to carry everything.

And you don’t have to carry it alone.

When the weight builds, when your thoughts feel full, when everything feels heavy…

Put it in a bubble. 🫧

About the Podcast

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Heartfelt conversations to help you let go and move forward.

About your host

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Marilyn Barker

Certified Business and Motivational Coach. Wife and Mom. Living with Depression and anxiety and helping others know they are not alone. Marilyn started her own business in 2006 after ending up in the hospital after a mental break. She prides herself on learning and overcoming hardships she has faced in her life. She is helping others see that there can be a life worth living even when you have struggles with mental health.