Episode 8

Asking For Help Without Feeling Like a Burden

How many times have we needed help and stayed quiet instead because asking felt like too much? In this episode Marilyn gets honest about why so many of us would rather struggle alone than risk being seen as needy, weak, or a burden to the people we love.

This is a conversation about where that belief comes from, what it actually costs us emotionally and even in our work and business lives, and why asking for help is one of the bravest and most self-aware things we can do. Because the people who truly love us want the chance to show up for us the same way we show up for them.

This episode is a gentle reminder that we were never meant to carry everything alone. And letting people in is not an imposition. It is a gift.

In this episode:

  • Why so many of us equate independence with strength and needing help with failure
  • What happens when we suffer in silence instead of reaching out
  • How struggling to delegate or ask for support in business can lead to burnout
  • Why the people who love us want to be trusted enough to show up for us
  • How to use the bubble method when the fear of being a burden feels overwhelming
  • Five gentle ways to start practicing asking for help

This week's takeaway:

Needing support does not make us a burden. It makes us human. The people who truly love us want the chance to show up for us the same way we show up for them.

Connect with Marilyn:

www.MarilynBarker.com

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About the Podcast

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Heartfelt conversations to help you let go and move forward.

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Marilyn Barker

Certified Business and Motivational Coach. Wife and Mom. Living with Depression and anxiety and helping others know they are not alone. Marilyn started her own business in 2006 after ending up in the hospital after a mental break. She prides herself on learning and overcoming hardships she has faced in her life. She is helping others see that there can be a life worth living even when you have struggles with mental health.